March 30, 2025
Transitional Intelligence
In this article, we’ll explore two very different transitions: the sudden ones that throw us off course, and the long-overdue ones we delay for years. You’ll find strategies for navigating...
January 23, 2025
Systemic Intelligence
As 2025 begins, many people feel the "new year energy" and a desire to start fresh. But it’s worth considering that the concept of a new year is entirely human-made. To a spacecraft that...
November 28, 2024
Personal Growth
We all love the idea of learning—online courses, certifications, even a new master’s degree. They promise a better version of ourselves. But what if our craving for knowledge isn’t about growth at...
September 5, 2024
Emotional Intelligence
Do you find yourself getting angry when others are reckless, careless, or downright irresponsible? Do you wish you had more patience, even when you feel you have zero tolerance for such behaviors?...
August 22, 2024
Emotional Intelligence
The hot topic this week is confidence. Isn’t it always a hot topic? Even the most confident people second-guess themselves when their ego takes a hit. Confidence is our judgment and perception of...
August 1, 2024
Emotional Intelligence,Leadership,Personal Growth
As you are reading this newsletter, the chances are, you are a go-getter who’s pretty good at getting what you want. You might even be a generous giver who can pour your heart out for others. But the...
July 25, 2024
Systemic Intelligence,Transitional Intelligence
This is a quote my coachee brought up in our coaching session. Despite describing himself as a hardcore Android believer, he deeply resonated with what Jobs said and concluded that “people either...
July 18, 2024
Emotional Intelligence,Personal Growth,Systemic Intelligence
This ONE by Yolanda Yu This ONE idea and its manifestations in life and career Happy This ONE Friday! Many of us feel like we are surrounded by “idiots” at work – people who are lazy...
July 11, 2024
Emotional Intelligence,Transitional Intelligence
Happy This ONE Friday! I want to share a poem that touched my heart. The journeys I took with some of you this week are singing to it. We all go through phases of reflection when making important...
July 4, 2024
Conflict Management
In a few recent coaching sessions on conflict management, a major insight emerged: We’re social animals, wired to maintain harmony within our tribe. Conflict, on the surface, seems dangerous. But...
June 27, 2024
Personal Growth,Systemic Intelligence
Some of you have done this exercise with me: a constellation work to map out team relationships. Depending on where we were, I drew them on whiteboard, paper, iPad, or enlisted things on hand, tissue...
June 20, 2024
Personal Growth,Systemic Intelligence
The ONE Idea "Spontaneity propels the individual towards an adequate response to a new situation or a new response to an old situation." Jacob Levy Moreno, founder of Psychodrama. It...
June 13, 2024
Conflict Management,Relational Intelligence,Systemic Intelligence
This ONE Idea In a recent coaching session, a client shared a profound insight at his “ah-ha” moment: At first, this seems paradoxical. After all, rigidity is often the enemy of fluidity. As a coach...
June 6, 2024
Relational Intelligence
Happy This ONE Friday! Inertia is the very reason why routine works. It is also why we keep repeating a certain pattern, whether it works for or against us. This week, I chanced upon an old friend:...
May 23, 2024
Emotional Intelligence
This ONE by Yolanda Yu This ONE idea and its manifestations in life and career Happy This ONE Friday! A big “thank you” to everyone who provided feedback! Your insights, both encouraging and...
May 16, 2024
Personal Growth,Relational Intelligence
You are doing well in your career and poised to get promoted. Then a mentor, often also a senior executive, tells you that you must become more visible in the larger organization for bigger success...
May 9, 2024
Emotional Intelligence,Personal Growth
Since childhood, we've been taught to see things in binary terms: this and that, success and failure, good and bad. At its best, it helps us simplify decisions. But more often than not, this view...
May 2, 2024
Leadership,Personal Growth,Systemic Intelligence
I was with Daniel Pieper at the “Futureproofing your career” webinar on Tuesday. Daniel is the former CIO of Hoolah, a fintech startup acquired by ShopBack a few years ago. His entrepreneurship...
April 25, 2024
Personal Growth,Relational Intelligence
But while writing this newsletter, I am not feeling happy. And I think that is okay. My daughter’s close friend, also a 5-year-old girl, lost her mother last night. Though unfamiliar with her mother...
April 18, 2024
Strategic Communication
Happy This ONE Friday! For the very reason that I am late for my homework (Weekly newsletter), my podcast “Unfinished Thoughts with Yolanda Yu” was finally born. Why “unfinished thoughts”? Because the...
LEADERSHIP March 2026
In this article, we’ll explore two very different transitions: the sudden ones that throw us off course, and the long-overdue ones we delay for years.
Team Dynamics February 2026
As 2025 begins, many people feel the “new year energy” and a desire to start fresh. But it’s worth considering that the concept of a new year is entirely human-made.
Strategy
January 2026
We all love the idea of learning—online courses, certifications, even a new master’s degree. They promise a better version of ourselves.